chore: add Docker deployment setup and health check wiring

- Add multi-stage Dockerfile for backend (SDK build → ASP.NET runtime,
  non-root user, /health HEALTHCHECK)
- Add docker-compose.dev.yml orchestrating extrudex-api + control-center-web
- Add deploy.sh convenience script wrapping docker compose up --build
- Wire ASP.NET health checks: AddHealthChecks().AddNpgSql() + MapHealthChecks("/health")
- Add backend .dockerignore (comprehensive pattern list)
- Exclude frontend/dist, frontend/node_modules, frontend/.angular from git

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

.gitignore

@@ -2,4 +2,9 @@ bin/
 obj/
 *.user
 *.suo
-.vs/
+.vs/
+
+# Frontend build artifacts
+frontend/dist/
+frontend/node_modules/
+frontend/.angular/